[Book Review] Three Women by Lisa Taddeo

Rating: 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

44913866. sy475 Synopsis: All Lina wanted was to be desired. How did she end up in a marriage with two children and a husband who wouldn’t touch her?

All Maggie wanted was to be understood. How did she end up in a relationship with her teacher and then in court, a hated pariah in her small town?

All Sloane wanted was to be admired. How did she end up a sexual object of men, including her husband, who liked to watch her have sex with other men and women?

Three WomenΒ is a record of unmet needs, unspoken thoughts, disappointments, hopes and unrelenting obsessions.


This book took my breath away.

I’m not usually a reader of non-fiction, but something about this book caught my eye. The cover helped, but the amazing reviews which all of my friends and work colleagues had given it pre-release sealed the deal.

Three Women is about, well… Three Women. Individual in their lives and stories, but all linked by an overriding theme: lust, desire, and the lengths we as women go to to fulfil those desires.

Never have I been so utterly captivated and absorbed in a book as I was when reading this. Each woman’s narrative was unique yet equally as valid and enthralling as one another.

Maggie’s story begins in her teen years as she is enraptured by her teacher, and we follow their developing relationship. Jump forward six years and we see her finally able to speak out as she realises how deeply it has affected her life and her ability to love another, as she confronts him in court. But how could someone as well presented, admired and appreciated as “Teacher of The Year” possibly do such a thing?

Lina is a 30-something year old woman who married the “right man”, yet he won’t kiss her, touch her or have any kind of physical relationship with her. Their therapist tells him that it’s okay to not want to kiss his wife, he doesn’t have to if he doesn’t want to and it’s completely normal to feel that way. In a social group where all the other women are married, and to divorce would be a scandal, Lina feels totally segregated and torn as to what the best decision would be: to leave, and for once feel wanted and desired, or to stay in an unhappy marriage as that is what is expected of her, and best for the kids?

Sloane is in her 40’s, married to a husband who worships the ground she walks on, and sleeping with other men and women so her husband can watch. Her entire life she has been told that she is a burden, all she wanted was to be loved, wanted and appreciated. The dynamic within this relationship is odd, or so would be perceived by her friends and relatives so she cannot tell anyone. To do so would have catastrophic repercussions.

Each one of these women’s stories are unique, valid and gripping. Knowing that they are real lives adds a whole other element of power to the writing, and as I reader, I could identify with each one of their struggles even though their personal circumstances are so far removed from my own life.

In short, every woman should read this book. If not for the emotional and empowering journey it will take you on, but for the thriller-like, unputdownable way that it reads.

Honestly, I could read this book over and over again, every single day for the rest of my life.

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My Year in Books… So Far.

GUESS WHO’S BACK (back, back, back) AGAIN!

Life can be pretty hectic, and paired with that, extreme fatigue and not knowing whether you can truly be a part of the blogging community when you don’t post as regularly as you “should”, well, it sure can get on top of your ability to write, post and even read.

That’s right, I’ve barely read a thing this year…

But do you know what? I’m coming to accept that it’s okay.

So, as my first blog post of the second half of 2019 (or pretty much the WHOLE of 2019 if we exclude January), I figured I’d give a little update into what I’ve read so far this year, including the books I’ve started but yet to finish.


JANUARY

Girls of Paper and FireΒ by Natasha Ngan

Rating: 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

This was the first book I read this year, and it set my year off to a GREAT start. I absolutely loved it and cannot wait for the sequel (Yes, I see you, lucky people who managed to get their hands on a proof copy of Girls of Storm and Shadow… I see you and I’m seriously envious…)

Normal People by Sally Rooney

Rating: 🌟🌟🌟

I read this because of all the hype that surrounded it. I didn’t really enjoy her first novel, but this was a little better. It still took me ages to get through even though it’s short, and I didn’t really feel as though I connected with the characters or narrative in any way.

Empress of All SeasonsΒ by Emiko Jean

Rating: 🌟🌟🌟.5

This was the book included in Illumicrate, and I think that it’s the first time I’ve ever read a book from a subscription box within the month of it’s arrival… a feat. It was a mixed bag for me – it took me half of the month to read and only really picked up after the 200 page mark.


FEBRUARY

Crooked KingdomΒ by Leigh Bardugo

Status: Unfinished, 27%

Why have I not finished this book? I don’t know, but I got into a HUGE slump. As you’ll see in about 10 seconds time…


MARCH

Nothing.


APRIL

Still nothing…


MAY

My birthday month!

But I still didn’t read anything.


JUNE

The Boneless MerciesΒ by April Genevieve Tucholke

Rating: 🌟🌟🌟🌟

What’s this? SHE READ A BOOK?! Too right I did. After being in such a long slump, I decided to pluck a random book from my shelves and see what it could do. It wasn’t life-changing but I thoroughly enjoyed it and it proved that I still have the ability to read. Hurrah.


JULY

That’s this month, how did that happen? Where did all the time go?!

Three WomenΒ by Lisa Taddeo

Rating: 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

This book was incredible. After hearing so many people talk about it, and being intrigued by it’s themes, I knew I had to read it. This is the best book I have read this year. Bold statement which kind of loses it’s impact once you see that I haven’t really read much of anything this year, but even if I had it would still deserve that title. I can’t wait to compile my thoughts into a full review for you all.

The ConfessionΒ by Jessie Burton

Status: Currently Reading

This is an advance copy due for publication in September 2019. I’m enjoying it so far – good news!


Other books I started but have no idea when, and haven’t finished them:

How To FailΒ by Elizabeth Day

Notes To Self by Emilie Pine

Everything You Ever Wanted by Luiza Sauma

I was enjoying these, believe it or not, but I picked them up during the great slump of 2019 so unfortunately by no fault of their own, they got abandoned.


I bet you’re all wondering where I’m at with my Goodreads Reading Challenge…

To be honest, I’m ignoring it at the moment, and haven’t even really been using Goodreads all that much as of late. For now, I’d like to just start enjoying reading again rather than worrying about how many books I have or haven’t read in comparison to everyone else.

YOU DO YOU, IT’S NOT A RACE.

Thank you to those who have reminded me of that recently. I’m here now because of you.